Lie Detection - Trapping a Liar
Lie detection may start with watching for signs of lying in
a person. But sometimes you have to do more than just listen
and watch. Sometimes you have to trap a liar. Here is one of
the many ways to do that.
Lie Detection - Introduce an Assumption
This is a common trapping technique. Here is the essence of
it: When you suspect a person of lying about some activity, you
make a statement that assumes some possible fact or facts, so
that the person's confirmation of these facts provides evidence
of a lie.
For example, suppose that when you ask, your boyfriend says
he was at home the previous night. You suspect that he was actually
at his favorite bar. You ask and he claims he didn't go out.
Knowing which streets he would have to drive on to get there,
you say, "But I drove right by you on Second Avenue last
night." In other words, you just assume that he was on that
street.
If he was out, and he drove that way, he'll probably quickly
make an excuse, like "Oh yeah, I did go out to get some
groceries." If he was telling the truth all along, he'll
just assume you are mistaken, and tell you so. If he guesses
that you are unsure, he may just lie again, in which case you
might try another lie detecting technique.
The idea here is to think of any facts that fit the scenario
which you suspect is the truth. For example, if you think your
child snuck out of the house in the night and she denies it,
you could say, "But I looked and you weren't in bed last
night." If she was in bed, she will say so, and you can
cover yourself by saying something like, "I guess you were
under the blankets."
Suppose you think an employee is lying about being home sick
the previous day. Using this lie detection technique, you might
say you drove by his house and noticed his car was gone. If he
was lying, and he takes your bait, he'll likely say something
like, "Oh. I had to go out for medicine" - a pretty
good indication that he was lying (unless it just happens to
be true coincidentally). Otherwise, he'll insist that his car
was there, and you can say you must have been looking at the
wrong house.
You always have to gauge the person's response. An obvious
or fumbling attempt to find an excuse obviously indicates a lie.
A long pause also likely indicates that the person is trying
to find a plausible story to fit the facts which you "obviously"
know.
If your "facts" or assumptions are wrong, most people
will quickly say so. Of course in that case, it is easy to say
that it was a simple mistake on your part. That is one of the
advantages of this lie detection technique - you don't risk much
by trying it.
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