Body Language
In Chapter Two of You Aren't Suppose to Know (part
of the Secrets Package), I address body language. I explain how
leaning forward at the right time or sitting in the same position
as the person in front of you can influence people. I even mention
the "eye trick," which I will look at again here.
I just recently read the book Incognito - The Secret Lives
of the Brain, by David Eagleman, which look at many of the
things going on in our brains and minds, just below (or far below)
consciousness. In the first chapter he writes about recent research
involving men who were asked to rank how attractive women are
from photos of their faces. What the men who participated didn't
know was that half of the women in the photographs had their
pupils dilated. The men were consistently more attracted to these
women.
The men were not told that some of the women had dilated pupils,
and they did not notice consciously. They were simply more attracted
to those with larger pupils. Something in their brains understood
that dilated pupils correlated with sexual desire, and that in
turn made them more interested in those women. It is a good example
of one of the many subliminal clues and cues that can affect
people without their conscious knowledge.
The more important point for our purposes is that such body
language can be purposely used to influence others. Whether you
are a man or a woman you can learn to make your pupils larger
at will, and so make yourself more attractive to the opposite
sex. I explain how in that second chapter of You Aren't Suppose
to Know .
You can also become aware of how the body language of people
around you is affecting your thinking and feelings. That makes
it possible to override what your unconscious mind is pushing
you toward. You can make better decisions if you can see the
subliminal influences which are affecting your thoughts. It is
something to keep in mind.
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I cover things like body language and subliminal influences from
time to time in the mailings. For more about the "eye trick"
and other ways to influence others, you can also buy the Secrets
Package (see Chapter 2 - How to Read Minds and Influence
the Opposite Sex; you can order on the home page).
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